Episode 8

Hey Butterfly: Part 1

Published on: 9th October, 2023

Prepare for a fascinating conversation as Erika sits down with Mandy Lauderdale, owner of Hey Butterfly and obsessively knowledgeable medical esthetician. In Part One of this two-part episode, they discuss skincare, aging gracefully, Mandy's early career in the spotlight, and more!

Check out Mandy at Hey Butterfly https://www.heybutterflystudio.com/

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Welcome to the bell.

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Hope you're doing well.

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Just kidding.

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Welcome to Clover club.

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You're probably wondering

why I just said that.

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And I have a little update

since our last episode, which

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I know you all listened to you.

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the morning after I recorded

with champion Heath, I got a

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fateful text message from champ.

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Have a link to a vintage taco bell table.

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My guest, Mandy is here and

she's already chuckling.

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I'm like, I'm going to

do this little intro.

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Um, it's like impossible to not laugh at.

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But he sent me this link to

this table, jokingly saying new

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podcast table question mark.

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And I was like, LOL, but I

couldn't stop thinking about it.

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And an hour later I was like,

send me that fucking link.

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And then the next morning,

three hot tattooed dudes.

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Move this table.

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Stairs.

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And now Mandy is my first

guest sitting at it.

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And if the name Mandy sounds familiar

it's because I mentioned her at the

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beginning of an earlier episode,

she is my favorite skin guru.

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And.

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Ah, Mandy's here to talk all

things, taco bell, an anti-aging.

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Hi, Mandy.

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The worst two things you

could ever put together.

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Ever.

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Like how much heart disease started.

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All right.

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I can't.

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It's so nice.

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Like we, they really don't make things

like this scene where this is would it's.

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Comfortable it's it's

shockingly comfortable, right?

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It's actually beautiful.

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Tacky.

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1970s.

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Relationship started at this table.

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Oh my God.

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I bet people sat at this

table who were dead now.

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Oh, absolutely.

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From taco bell.

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And just because it's old.

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Statistically speaking.

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That is correct.

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It's funny.

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Mandy's sent me a message on Instagram,

like, as I was posting about this

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table acquisition, and she's like,

are you telling me I gave you the

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first guest to sit at this table.

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And I was like, I'm really glad that

you appreciate how important that is.

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Yes.

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Yes, you are.

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You clean it.

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Yeah.

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I mean, as much as I questioned it.

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I give it a nice little wipe down.

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I have not eaten talk about it yet,

but I have plans to, I'm gonna drink

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a bottle of champagne and get a bunch

of talk about with my best friends in.

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And break it in as God intended.

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It was gorgeous.

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It's perfectly warranted as it should be.

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Yes.

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Pre loved.

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I love it.

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Well, Well, Mandy, thank you.

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So, so, so, so much for

coming to you Clover club.

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Thank you for having me.

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I did a little like teaser

poll on our Instagram.

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And this is, you know, if you don't follow

us on Instagram, You should, because

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leading up to episodes with experts,

I like to do a Q and a, so that then I

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can take your questions to the expert.

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And so I've done that with Mandy, so,

and a bit, we're going to get into that.

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But just a little FYI,

follow us at Clover club pod.

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, Mandy.

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How's your day going, click.

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How are you?

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I'm good.

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This is the first podcast

I've ever been interviewed on.

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Oh, my God.

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I love cause I speak at conferences

and I go to trade shows and

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I'm in the treatment room.

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And I'm always doing

consultations and procedures, but.

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I love talking about this because I, I

was surprised you asked me to be on here.

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Even though, you know, how, what

my stance is on anti-aging and how

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I feel about it being an oxymoron.

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How.

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What society has done to women

in the unrealistic standards with

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aging and the expectations put on

us and how it's like a big deal.

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When you see some celebrity

like she's so brave.

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She's aging naturally.

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I'm like, why is that brave?

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It's not brave.

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And it's really annoying.

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And that's actually why I wanted

you to come on because your mindset

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about this is in alignment with mine.

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, I think was it this weekend?

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Is it.

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I think Pamela Anderson went to fashion

week with like no makeup and everyone's

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like, oh my God, she is so brave.

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And I'm like, is she.

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I mean, is that really even worth

like commenting on, you know, I agree.

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And, , Alicia keys got the same thing.

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Exactly.

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Side note.

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I have interviewed Alicia

keys a long time ago.

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I wasn't BGN MTV.

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Long time ago.

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And she.

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I love that you don't know much about me.

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This is why I love this podcast.

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That is okay.

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Go on.

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Gonna back up.

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So, the reason I was on MTV, I

can't believe I'm telling you this.

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Hours podcast.

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I've been on Pasa.

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I was on the first temptation

island a long time ago on Fox.

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It's like the original.

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. I say, I love that you don't know this.

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It makes my day and I'll never talk about.

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Please talk all you want this as well.

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The person I was on there with, I was

dating at the time that we were on there.

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We were a cast into the limelight.

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I think it was also because we

just didn't care about being on TV.

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And everyone else did.

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So I think that's why they

shine a little bit on us.

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Yeah.

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And, , ended up on like Howard stern.

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TRL.

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And Leno.

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And like shoved on all this, not

having done much entertainment at all.

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I was just getting into

the music industry.

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Actually wasn't even doing aesthetics.

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I was 22 years old.

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I'm 45 now.

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And , it was crazy.

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, so one of the interviews was

with Carson daily on MTV.

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And when I get off, they asked

me if I wanted to be a VJ.

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And I swear, I got asked to do

it because I genuinely did not

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care about being on television.

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Yeah.

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So that's why I ended up being

in key west, living there

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for three months, doing MTV.

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MTV.

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Embrace.

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It was like, yeah, it was like

their spring, but it was more like

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it was MTV summer and the keys now.

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Okay.

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Did I hook co-hosted a

show with Carmen Electra.

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And what's really funny

is that I'm from Atlanta.

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So going down to key west in the

middle of the summer, wasn't that big

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of a deal, but it was so hot and all

of these other VJ's that were down

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there, including Carson and a few other

people were not used to that kind of

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heat and working in that kind of heat.

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But it didn't bother me.

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So I ended up getting to host

TRL and do other things with like

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Brian Mcphaden and a few of them.

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It was, it was, oh my gosh.

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Like Tom WAMS, gins.

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Who's Tom long spans.

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Wait.

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Hold on.

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Hold on.

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This is very important.

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Brian.

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Oh, nevermind.

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I've just lost all of your listeners.

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So that you Mcphaden.

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That's who I'm thinking of.

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Okay.

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But Brian was the one.

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And then I'm Dave Holmes, who was amazing.

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And so I, yeah, it was, it was, it

was like Mandy Moore was down there

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and that's how long ago this was.

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This was when in sync and

Backstreet boys and good Charlotte.

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Yeah, all the, it was, it was, it

was a trip it's like during, right

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in the middle of this pop centric.

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So, Alicia keys was down.

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She was the nicest guest

that I interviewed.

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So when this, this ties back around

to we're talking about not wearing

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any makeup, it doesn't need to tire.

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I remember.

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You warned me, this is

how your podcast goes.

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I know Leary led with this.

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I never tell anybody this.

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So glad.

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Oh, Lord.

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Alicia look what you did.

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So, , but she was so cool.

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So as, even though I was doing

music, I had gone to college for

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opera and I was crossing over

into jazz and all that good stuff.

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So for me, I was kind of an

asshole as an interviewer.

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First of all, I didn't know how to do it.

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And I, I wanted to test to see

people could really sing live.

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And so I did it to everybody.

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I did it to usher.

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I did it to.

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Oh, there were so many.

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, and.

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I sure did it too.

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Anyways, Alicia keys.

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And so she's some people be like,

oh, we'll do this after the break.

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And they want a warm up and she

just went so hurt song fallen.

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Had come out and she just like.

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Broke into it.

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Like.

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It was awesome.

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It was fucking awesome.

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What's your test like seeing

right now and make a good.

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Okay.

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Would you sing for us?

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And, um, and every time the producers

were looking at me, like, man, he stop it.

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They knew what I was doing.

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I'm like, let's just see if

they're legit or if they just

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had a really good record label.

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So, , anyway, she was so cool.

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And so afterward we

were in the green room.

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And I said, Hey, congrats on

everything that you're doing.

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You're amazing.

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She was the nicest celebrity

in sheer celebrity.

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Um, just that lifestyle was very

new to her and she was so humble.

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She was like, congrats to you too.

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She's like, I followed your jury too.

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And I'm like, what?

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My little like rallies show, like.

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Like I like tripped over myself

and ended up on a BJ and MTV.

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Anyways.

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I was not very good at this job.

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And after, , three

months, , I was like, oh, and.

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They like resigned your contract.

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I just, it wasn't, it wasn't for me.

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And I was, I wasn't into it, but

it was like three months of that.

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Sounds perfect.

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It was good.

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It was fun.

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It was just like, but

everybody, everybody was cool.

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I'm telling you this because she

was so even though she was very

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young too, but she was just so

beautiful without any makeup on.

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And just seeing her do

that later on in life.

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she's and she, I don't, I

think she felt the same way.

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She doesn't see it as brave.

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She's like, this is my face.

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Fucking face.

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Yeah.

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But she understands her

responsibility as a celebrity.

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As a woman as mom.

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To be like, this is okay.

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, to show your face.

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Absolutely.

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I have a question I don't know

if you know this, but it's

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part of her, no makeup thing.

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Does she also not do any skin treatments

or injectables or anything like that?

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It's her whole thing it's completely

natural or she just no makeup.

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That's a good question.

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I haven't talked to her into London.

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Can you call her?

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She doesn't look like

she's had anything done.

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She's looks very natural.

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, and a lot of times just people with

darker skin have usually oilier skin.

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That's not always the case.

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And so they don't age as much as you and

I age For the month of October, I'm

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doing kind of my spin on scary things.

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Okay.

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And so this episode is going to start

that because people are so scared of aging

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and showing their faces so I was like,

Ooh, this is a great way to kick off.

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Yes.

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It's funny that we're talking about

that in particular there, I just

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remembered that Sharley stair on.

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There's a great interview

when she was on Oprah.

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I'm not going to quote this, but you

can find it on YouTube or somewhere.

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And she was talking about how her.

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Unrealistic beauty standards

of people and she's gorgeous.

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She used to be modeled before she

was an actress, but she was talking

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about her mother is in the audience.

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She said, she said something like if

my mom starts getting too much Botox

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or too much filler or schizo facelift

or any of these things, by the way,

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listeners, I'm not opposed to any of that.

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But, uh, we'll we'll get there.

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Um, that she goes, it's like

a racing the photo album.

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And so, but then I was

like, oh, and it hit me.

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And this was years ago.

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, and I w right, when you showed me this

table and you were looking at all these

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little scratches, like maybe like a little

five-year-old like dug her fingernails

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in there because she was nervous for

some little recital that she just did or.

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That this was from moving around,

like who knows where all these little

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scratches on this table come from.

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I hope you never touch it.

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They all have a story.

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And so when I, it's funny, I

have this patient that comes

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to me and she is stunning.

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And she, I don't know who hurt her.

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When she was younger about when,

what she's chasing, but we'll fix

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one concern, quote, unquote, fix.

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I don't.

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I never know when people are going to be

happy with results, like how far along?

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Sure.

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So cause I'm people with good results,

so is relative to that person.

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Right?

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So, but she's so focused on

these baby lines or her on her.

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You know, marionettes.

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It's like baby lines.

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I'm like, oh, you mean the

ones you got from smiling?

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Yeah.

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From your face, moving your face.

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It speak, Mandy, come on.

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I'm like, I think you need a therapist.

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I know her really well.

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Just say that, or that'd be

really inappropriate, but

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sometimes people just need a hug.

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Yes.

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That is a really hard part of my job, but

people will walk in and see me and they'll

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say, okay, what do you think I need?

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I'm like, bitch.

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Yeah, I have.

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Yeah.

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I walk in the, put your, do

some earthing, put your feet in

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the grass and let's figure out.

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I think that's a really nice thing.

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With your setup because you're,

one-on-one with your patients.

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And I'm also one-on-one most

of the time with my guests.

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And it allows for a deeper level

of connection and conversation,

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but once you've established that

relationship with people and you

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start to realize like, oh, the issue,

isn't your hair color, the issue.

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Is the weight of all of your insecurities

that you're placing on your hair color

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or your haircut or your skin or whatever.

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And I do think you're right, you

have to read your, your client.

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, but I think people need people

like us to be like, Hey.

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That thing you just said

about yourself as not okay.

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Like.

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I don't want to hear you

talk about yourself that way.

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Let's talk about what we can

do to kind of, you know, Yeah.

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Self-esteem because what the fuck?

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Most patients numb for

the procedures that I do.

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I do all medical aesthetics treatments.

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So most people are numbing in.

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I have this, I have said this so many.

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I probably say this once a week and

I'll be walking out because they

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just get to relax and chill vibe out.

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Yeah.

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And before I leave the room, I

say, I want you to say in your

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head something nice about yourself.

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I love that.

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Let's laugh at me.

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I'm like, say it right now in your head.

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And they just like, oh,

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I think it makes them

realize that I have a sign.

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You might've seen it hanging in my room.

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And it says something like, Hey, gorgeous.

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, in this room, we don't believe

in anti-aging because it's

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an oxymoron in this room.

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We believe in healthy aging,

because aging is a privilege denied

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to many that last little line.

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denied to many is from mark Twain.

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Oh.

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And it's just so beautiful

because it's so true.

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I want saying.

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When I was singing jazz in LA.

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I will never forget this funeral.

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this man is a gay man.

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Put in his is so fabulous.

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He put in his will, that he

wanted on the penthouse suite

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of the Waldorf for storage.

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They rented it out and they wanted, , a

red head red hair at the time they

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wanted a red head and a flowery dress

sitting on top of a white grand piano.

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Singing show tunes.

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Oh my gosh.

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My agent found out about this and they

hired me because I had long wavy red hair.

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Oh.

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Can you do all that?

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I had to learn some show tunes.

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I just didn't want to

traditional jazz at the time.

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I sat on this table and what was, first of

all, was really cool to do, but for first

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of all, everybody walking in and thought

like, oh my God, this is so inappropriate.

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I'm like my baby.

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I'm sorry, your friend is dead, you know?

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and all these remix.

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I know these women are looking at me like.

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This bitch.

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Oh my God, but we're so crazy about it.

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It was like, so I didn't do aesthetics

when I lived in LA to music.

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Full-time okay.

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I was just looking at all these women

who are in their seventies and eighties.

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You've never seen nip tuck.

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Like you have an LA.

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Um, especially Beverly Hills

and Bellaire, and it is.

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It and it, everything

was just so preserved.

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These women, you could tell by

their hands really how old they

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were and more people are doing hand

treatments because of that now.

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The hand is the name of my mortgage.

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Thanks ladies.

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. But it was wild to just see it.

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Like what.

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What are y'all doing?

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But here's the thing I know I'm

sounding real judgy right now.

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If that makes them happy in that.

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That they don't, they almost

don't even know any better.

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Right.

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Of like the, the keeping up

with the Jones' keeping up

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with them to Jones his face.

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Yeah.

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, kind of thing.

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And so, but it w my responsibility

would, I have chosen to do with

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my career is when someone comes

to me and they're like, Okay.

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I'm going to get microneedling or laser

treatment or all these things, because

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I don't want to get Botox and filler.

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I'm like, hold on a minute.

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And they know that I don't

have Botox and filler.

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Yeah.

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But I'm like, I go, but I work at it.

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I massage my face at home.

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We'll get into all these things that

people can do later in this talk with.

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I go, I work at it.

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I go, I can't fix all these things

for you because if you're not going

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to wear sunscreen, if you're not going

to massage your face, if you're not

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going to drink half your body weight

in ounces, if you're not going to eat

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point seven grams for every pound.

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You are protein.

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Oh, wow.

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I've, you're not going to take a vitamin C

supplement, which is what builds college.

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Yeah, it's just, if you're not

going to do those things, then I,

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and also if people say people want

to come to me from micro-needling

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because they have a bunch of.

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Bunch of lines that they want to fix.

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They've super like

super, expressive faces.

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I'm working a lot of teachers

who just they're like, listen, I

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don't want to get Botox because I

still want to be expressive, but

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I don't want to find lines either.

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I'm like, well, that's.

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Possible.

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We gotta meet in the middle of summer.

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Are you a car with no wheels?

438

:

Yes.

439

:

And that's when, like you need both.

440

:

Yeah, let's just, let's just

start over with expectations.

441

:

I met yesterday with a woman

who drove here from Macon.

442

:

Okay.

443

:

And she had a lot of hyperpigmentation.

444

:

That was her main thing.

445

:

Just hyperpigmentation.

446

:

And I told her she's like, I just

want to, and I thought I was like,

447

:

oh, I need to remember to tell,

tell Eric this in her podcast.

448

:

And she said, I just want to put on a

tinted moisturizer she's in her seventies.

449

:

Okay.

450

:

Tinted moisturizer every morning, LA.

451

:

A little mascara

lipstick, go out the door.

452

:

And I was like, you know,

that chisel and melasma too.

453

:

You know that melasma hyperpigmentation.

454

:

You never like fully get rid of it.

455

:

You manage it for life.

456

:

And she has like what?

457

:

And she started crying.

458

:

Oh, it broke my heart.

459

:

She's like, no one's ever told me this.

460

:

And I just, I, I totally broke her heart.

461

:

Just by delivering

information, but that's my job.

462

:

And that is every medical

aesthetics in every setting.

463

:

Strider's job is to just be honest.

464

:

Yes.

465

:

Instead of just being like, oh, if I tell

them this, like, we'll get rid of it.

466

:

Eventually.

467

:

They'll just keep giving me

money and it's just not fair.

468

:

So for me, what I've chosen.

469

:

My job to be is to reset

people's expectations.

470

:

Yes.

471

:

And I am educated.

472

:

Yes, I go.

473

:

And I said, we can do all this stuff.

474

:

This is what you have to

do year round to manage it.

475

:

I was like, let's talk about

a really good concealer.

476

:

She's like, what?

477

:

The last thing you'd expect to talk to.

478

:

In medical education

about, yeah, but it's true.

479

:

It's just like in all sorts of

being like, Hey, you look beautiful.

480

:

What else can we do at home?

481

:

Are you using a good tretinoin?

482

:

And let's up this stop using a retinol.

483

:

It's usually those crossover to Trenton.

484

:

Oh yeah.

485

:

Stuff like that.

486

:

And it's just like that.

487

:

It's hard there.

488

:

So much, it is hard.

489

:

There's so much conflicting

information out there that , you

490

:

need somebody that can be your kind

of one go-to source that you trust.

491

:

And for me, that's, you.

492

:

And I.

493

:

Thank you.

494

:

I met Mandy almost well.

495

:

Yesterday was a year ago to the date.

496

:

And I do, you know that.

497

:

Yeah.

498

:

But I went in to see Mandy.

499

:

I I'm in my mid thirties.

500

:

, it wasn't from necessarily an

anti-aging perspective, but I

501

:

just had never had good skin.

502

:

Like I had had lots of acne issues

when I was younger and I just knew I'd

503

:

never really done anything to my face.

504

:

I had just started getting a little

Botox, but like, My face was like raw.

505

:

And I was like, I know

I've got acne scarring.

506

:

It's like a texture issues

and stuff like that.

507

:

But it wasn't.

508

:

I'm terrified of getting old, fix

my face, but it was , how do I make

509

:

my skin look, its best right now?

510

:

And Mandy, you were such

a godsend with information.

511

:

And like we came up with a plan and

we did this wild treatment and he

512

:

fried off my top 14 layers of skin.

513

:

And now I look great.

514

:

I have told so many people

about you that you just, you

515

:

went into medical aesthetics.

516

:

I don't count like

Botox, fillers, medical.

517

:

I mean like medical second treatment.

518

:

Yeah.

519

:

That, that cause like those,

I consider those injectables.

520

:

Yeah.

521

:

But you went, you went like to the

bat and like a CO2 laser, the most

522

:

aggressive things you can do because

it is ablative and listeners, like a

523

:

blade of means like removing the skin.

524

:

With, with something

that's a thermal injury.

525

:

So you're like a bleeding the skin.

526

:

So there's scabs left over.

527

:

And if you've seen her kid's picture,

she's just literally one big scab.

528

:

Yeah.

529

:

So many people want to

do that during this time.

530

:

Can I do this around Halloween.

531

:

So I look crazy just carnage,

but it's the fact that you went.

532

:

Did that extreme?

533

:

Most people want to dip their toe in it.

534

:

Yeah.

535

:

No, not you, not me.

536

:

And now that I know you

better, it makes sense.

537

:

Yeah.

538

:

I'm like why dilly dally?

539

:

Let's just fucking do this.

540

:

Yes.

541

:

But I think that a lot of people

said to me when I did that.

542

:

Oh, you're crazy.

543

:

You look great.

544

:

You're so young.

545

:

And I'm like, bitch, I'm not doing

this because I think I'm old.

546

:

Like I know I look good, but I'm like, if

I look this good without help, imagine.

547

:

What I would look like if

I had my face right off.

548

:

, and so that's the craziest

thing I've ever done.

549

:

Um, with my face.

550

:

So good though.

551

:

Looks so good.

552

:

Oh, the procedure she's talking about,

you guys is called, , miss the Plaza pin.

553

:

I know a lot of people

have heard about it.

554

:

The, the, the priest, the, she got

. She didn't just get the pointillism,

555

:

which others, the dot pattern that

a lot of you have seen online.

556

:

She also got resurfacing, which that's

more for texture and it looks like a bunch

557

:

of cat scratches in different directions.

558

:

And.

559

:

It looks worse.

560

:

Yeah.

561

:

Awesome.

562

:

Awesome.

563

:

Yeah.

564

:

I'll be honest, you inspired so

much confidence in me, Mandy, but I

565

:

didn't really even think through like

actually how intense what I was doing

566

:

was like, I knew , I knew it was a

serious thing, but I was like, ah, I

567

:

mean, sounds like what I need to do.

568

:

, and the 24 hours afterwards,

I was like, holy fuck.

569

:

I have been mauled by a bunch of ocelots.

570

:

Like I was not prepared for how intense

this is, but it was so worth it.

571

:

I mean, I would do it

again, . So much swelling too.

572

:

And that, that is the hardest

part to talk people off a cliff.

573

:

Like, should I go to the hospital?

574

:

I have had one lady long time ago.

575

:

Wasn't from that summer laser treatment.

576

:

A store for two plastic

surgeons and did this.

577

:

Really intense laser treatment.

578

:

And she was in her late seventies and she

just, you know, puffed up like a balloon.

579

:

Yeah.

580

:

I always give people my personal cell.

581

:

I'm like, I want you to call

me at three in the morning.

582

:

If your eyes are swollen, shut.

583

:

I was like, should you take it because

I want the inflammation, right.

584

:

There's so many things about, Hey,

get this treatment and we'll give

585

:

you this mass or this led thing

to bring down the inflammation.

586

:

Like absolutely not.

587

:

If you want that inflammation

for a few days, all those yummy

588

:

growth factors go in there.

589

:

I want your eyes to swell.

590

:

Shut.

591

:

I tell people, I want you to look in

the mirror and be like, ah, when you

592

:

were freaked out and be like, hell

yeah, I'm gonna have some great results.

593

:

Do not take that ibuprofen.

594

:

If you don't need it for medical reasons,

I'll have to say that for legal reasons.

595

:

Um,

596

:

um, but yeah, don't do anything

to bring the inflammation down.

597

:

It's like, whenever you, like,

before you hurt your knee,

598

:

you just need to elevate it.

599

:

Don't ice it right away.

600

:

You need those growth

factors went in there too.

601

:

You know, to repair, you taught me that.

602

:

Like not what people teach you

in health class and stuff.

603

:

So I thought, no.

604

:

Interesting little piece of information.

605

:

Yep.

606

:

Yeah.

607

:

I have three siblings and

my mom, , 10 grandkids.

608

:

And so I've told all of them this.

609

:

Like do not ice.

610

:

It I'm like, unless they just

need it for that comfort.

611

:

Just like, just do something cool.

612

:

So it'll heal so much faster, but chronic

inflammation that's the inflammation.

613

:

That's bad.

614

:

Yes.

615

:

So I had a lady who went to the ER.

616

:

In her late seventies from laser

treatment because she's like you.

617

:

And so she came in a couple weeks

later at, um, the doctor's like,

618

:

Hey, so-and-so wants to talk to you.

619

:

And they already knew that it was,

did she just didn't know better?

620

:

Yeah.

621

:

She was like, you burned me.

622

:

I'm like, damn right at Burnie.

623

:

Cause you made me do it.

624

:

We need to do it.

625

:

Thank you.

626

:

Um, yeah, some people don't read

the pre and post instructions.

627

:

That's okay.

628

:

I read them, but I.

629

:

It didn't sink in.

630

:

I don't know.

631

:

The intensity of it, but I don't care.

632

:

I love it when people come and they sit

in the chair, like, so what are we doing?

633

:

And I'm laughing.

634

:

I'm like, Wait a minute.

635

:

What I'm doing has like 14 days downtime.

636

:

What do you mean?

637

:

What are we doing?

638

:

Yeah.

639

:

I had a client just the other day

she got some peel and she walked

640

:

in and her face is all shiny.

641

:

And she's like, I just

got this face thing done.

642

:

I didn't read the directions.

643

:

I'm not supposed to get my hair done

for 72 hours, but here I am, I didn't

644

:

want to come for my appointment.

645

:

So can you like not get hair

color or water on my face?

646

:

And I was like, wait, yeah,

that's always the goal.

647

:

But like she came in with the peel on.

648

:

Well, I th I think it was just the post,

, I don't know, whatever comes up, whatever

649

:

they put on the face after the peel.

650

:

Okay.

651

:

But it is funny.

652

:

It's just like, people are like,

oh, like, yeah, I'll do this thing.

653

:

People, always people always want

to come to both of us back to back.

654

:

They want to get the hair.

655

:

So some people will go with beauty.

656

:

A little bit going to

be like microneedling.

657

:

Microneedling is the number one

medical sex treatment in the world.

658

:

For a good reason because

it's easy downtime.

659

:

It's not even much downtown on people,

just a little bit red, and then

660

:

it can be done on all skin types.

661

:

Year round could be done.

662

:

Acne.

663

:

If you don't have rosacea, can we get it?

664

:

You just don't want to do over cancer.

665

:

But yeah.

666

:

But it's, I mean, it takes

all the boxes, except the only

667

:

thing it doesn't do is tighten.

668

:

If you look on web MD, which is terrible.

669

:

It says it produces college in Alaska and

friends that does not produce elastin.

670

:

You need a thermal injury for that.

671

:

And you heard it here.

672

:

First.

673

:

I squirrel a lot.

674

:

I'll always come back anyhow.

675

:

I'll have people that come back.

676

:

I do microneedle and they're like,

I'm going to get my hair done.

677

:

I'm like, are you getting highlights?

678

:

Yeah, you can put bleach.

679

:

It's a thousand micro wounds.

680

:

A second.

681

:

Face neck and decolletage.

682

:

It's about, I use her Juva

pin is a with a speed.

683

:

I use about an 850,000

little micro wounds.

684

:

And like, you're going to put.

685

:

Love it.

686

:

You're gonna put toner and all those

things like on a route right around

687

:

here, your hairline, you will set them

on fire pipe, hyperpigmentation from it.

688

:

That's bad.

689

:

Anyways.

690

:

Yeah.

691

:

Don't do those things back to back.

692

:

Yeah.

693

:

Give yourself a little.

694

:

Yeah.

695

:

Uh, one thing for you today.

696

:

Yeah.

697

:

Keep it simple.

698

:

But even I, sometimes I actually should.

699

:

Now that you say that

put in my consent form.

700

:

Have you just had your hair done?

701

:

Because I can't do a chemical peel.

702

:

On someone who's had a chemical.

703

:

Oh, I'm so glad we're talking about this.

704

:

Hair color still is oxidizing for like 20.

705

:

That makes sense.

706

:

That that would be really bad.

707

:

Never seen that in a consent form.

708

:

Some Wiki hyperpigmentation and

Sue me, even though I have great

709

:

liability insurance and I'll have,

would have never known there are,

710

:

there are estheticians who have been

like what in the world happened.

711

:

They'll put a chemical peel on

somebody and that patient forgot that

712

:

they had their lip waxed or brow.

713

:

Oh, Oh, God.

714

:

Permanent.

715

:

It's tricky because sometimes you

just they'll get like it's called PIH.

716

:

Post-inflammatory hyperpigmentation.

717

:

Okay.

718

:

Just burns them a little bit.

719

:

So chemical burden.

720

:

Is it permanent?

721

:

Post-inflammatory hyperpigmentation.

722

:

That's why.

723

:

We call it PIH, usually in

hopes that post-inflammatory

724

:

hyperpigmentation just means.

725

:

Yeah.

726

:

You had some hyperpigmentation from the

inflammation, from something that you did.

727

:

Okay.

728

:

Um, whether it's, you know, a

little hiccup like that you had a

729

:

contraindication or whether it was

just like that, that skin is mad.

730

:

Yeah, which is fine.

731

:

It happens all the time, usually

takes about six months to go.

732

:

If it doesn't go away after about

six months, it's usually not PIH.

733

:

It's usually just someone got

that, but there's always ways.

734

:

There are always ways my friends to

treat hyperpigmentation from an injury.

735

:

Okay.

736

:

Sometimes scar tissue gets some pigment.

737

:

Cause you have, it's funny,

like when you have an injury,

738

:

let's say that you went hiking.

739

:

I have seen this before.

740

:

I guess it, I can, I can see it now.

741

:

Like a weird, like, like a mark,

like a stick on their face.

742

:

Did you go hiking and like someone in

front of you like pulled a tree branch.

743

:

I didn't tell you,

smacked you in the face.

744

:

Like something like that.

745

:

I've heard that story several times.

746

:

I've heard the people just have a

weird line of hyperpigmentation.

747

:

It's just odd looking

something, hit them in the face.

748

:

So three things can happen.

749

:

You can either get some scar tissue.

750

:

You can have some hyperpigmentation

because you have an injury and your

751

:

skin can just do a bunch of things.

752

:

So those melanocytes might just get mad.

753

:

Okay.

754

:

And they just shoot up

an umbrella pigment.

755

:

And that's what that is.

756

:

And then sometimes you can

have some little blood vessels

757

:

called telangiectasia, those

little spider veins on the face.

758

:

Yeah.

759

:

Sometimes that can happen.

760

:

It can be a combination of

two or three of those things.

761

:

Oh, wow.

762

:

You can there's there's ways of sometimes

just that pigment is not forever.

763

:

You just do some microneedling,

some peels, some laser treatments,

764

:

and it can just get it off.

765

:

And sometimes those melanocytes

are turned on for life.

766

:

And we can't turn them off.

767

:

We don't know.

768

:

Pigment, , whether it's sunspots

or whether it's, , melasma are the

769

:

two hardest things to treat because

sometimes all of a sudden I took

770

:

something off the inside of someone's

ear recently with the Plaza pen.

771

:

And we just think in part is, , some

pigment that came up from an

772

:

injury and it's never come back

to her sunspots have come back.

773

:

Cause that's what's so cool about, huh?

774

:

Yeah, that's really cool.

775

:

I mean, it's amazing.

776

:

By the way.

777

:

The little, little biology fact for you.

778

:

We all have the same

number of melanocytes.

779

:

Oh.

780

:

Someone from like Nigeria, blackest

night, black hair, black eyes has

781

:

the same number of melanocytes as

someone from Sweden with blonde hair,

782

:

blue eyes, pale pale, pale skin.

783

:

Okay.

784

:

What is the Malana site?

785

:

So

786

:

let's start from the beginning.

787

:

So.

788

:

I mean, obviously I know, but

I'm sure someone listening.

789

:

Um, melanin.

790

:

So melanin is pigment.

791

:

Atlanta pigment comes from Malana sites.

792

:

Melanin is pigment.

793

:

So most of it's like make the pigment.

794

:

Yeah.

795

:

Melanocytes make the pigment.

796

:

They shouldn't pigment.

797

:

So when you see little,

you know, Freckles.

798

:

I have all over my arms.

799

:

It's almost like little umbrellas.

800

:

It is just a line of defense.

801

:

So.

802

:

A little bit different the freckles.

803

:

Okay.

804

:

So, but all comes from the same place.

805

:

That's what's so tricky about

the lady talked to yesterday.

806

:

She has a mixture of sunspots.

807

:

And she has mixed her.

808

:

Melasma her cheeks.

809

:

She wants them gone so badly, but

she has just sunspots on her hands.

810

:

I'm like, listen, I can't do like IPL.

811

:

As intense pulse, light and laser

treatment, it is used for Rosa or BBL.

812

:

Everyone will say why one's

better than the other.

813

:

I don't care if you use both.

814

:

I think they're both great.

815

:

Yeah.

816

:

, Reps will tell you

differently, but who cares?

817

:

So, , do whatever you want to do.

818

:

So she can't do IPL because you

don't want to do heat on melasma,

819

:

but here's the funny part.

820

:

They both come from the same place.

821

:

They're both come from Atlanta sites.

822

:

There's triggered by different

things once triggered by the sun.

823

:

Once triggered by this hormonal.

824

:

So the people with molasses.

825

:

So I just started getting

so I'm peri-menopausal and

826

:

the little early at 45.

827

:

That's fine.

828

:

And I was like, what in the

world is this in my forearms?

829

:

It is rare.

830

:

, melasma on the forums is rare.

831

:

You usually see it sometimes in

the shoulders, but a lot of times

832

:

sides of the neck size of the cheek.

833

:

Sometimes the forehead,

sometimes the upper lip.

834

:

And if you could live in a cave with no

sun at all, but you just like you have

835

:

a death in the family get super stressed

out and all of a sudden it comes back.

836

:

Or you love hot yoga and all

of a sudden it just comes out.

837

:

You know, when.

838

:

Because you love hot yoga and it just, it.

839

:

Don't do hot yoga in a cave

after you lose a loved one.

840

:

Yes.

841

:

Horrible.

842

:

Combination.

843

:

Got it.

844

:

I have people that will like, um,

845

:

When people have those combination

of stressful things, not only is

846

:

it bad for something like molasses,

wait, let me, I'll finish this.

847

:

Uh, stop it real quick.

848

:

And then I'll go into, , things

that cause you to age faster.

849

:

Nice transition.

850

:

, so even though melasma and sunspots

come from the same place, you do

851

:

have to treat them differently

because you have, so that's why I

852

:

like certain peels are really good.

853

:

Just topicals are good.

854

:

, there are lasers.

855

:

That are okay.

856

:

, Four.

857

:

Like something like Moxi and Pico lasers

are okay for melasma here's the thing

858

:

they're not turning off the mulatto site.

859

:

They're not like shutting

that leaky faucet off a lot.

860

:

That's why I do love there's

something called, , Cosmin MD.

861

:

I love that because it gives people.

862

:

The power to take patients, the power to

use some products at home has a really

863

:

high hydroquinone is like 8% hydroquinone

mask and a 6% hydroquinone use at home.

864

:

Okay.

865

:

You should always rotate off

hydrocodone three months on three

866

:

months off because it technically is

a carcinogen when used all the time.

867

:

Oh.

868

:

Um, but when you, when you

rotated on and off, it's amazing.

869

:

So that's what I recommend for melasma.

870

:

I have, it's just sunspots.

871

:

There's all sorts of stuff.

872

:

You're not going to hurt it.

873

:

You're just always pulling it out.

874

:

Yeah, I like IPL.

875

:

I like BBL.

876

:

I like all sorts of chemical peels.

877

:

I love the perfect

Derma peel I love using.

878

:

Um, there's all these other

stuff that can, can mute those.

879

:

Melanocytes micro-needling with

certain things like buyer repealer

880

:

microneedling with, uh, I love this

product from France called alpha bright.

881

:

You can microneedle with it has no

hydroquinone in it or no TCA net.

882

:

And it just helps to kind of

shut those faucets off a lot.

883

:

A little bit so permanently.

884

:

No, nothing's permanent.

885

:

You can never shut off those

melanocytes permanently, but

886

:

for melasma in particular.

887

:

I prefer leaning towards hydroquinone

and just a lot of things.

888

:

And always using as many products as

you can that have melanin inhibitors.

889

:

PCA has a really good

product called pigment bar.

890

:

I love it.

891

:

And people can have some kojic acid in it.

892

:

It's a new way to wash your face.

893

:

You can actually wash your face, you

foam it up, you can put it on your

894

:

face and you leave it on for two

minutes and you can brush your teeth.

895

:

Then you rinse it off.

896

:

It's like a cleanser that also

has some melanin inhibitors.

897

:

So as many things as you can find in

your arsenal of if pigment is your

898

:

problem is many products, as you can

use people just say, oh, I should

899

:

just use a retinol or tretinoin.

900

:

Or I should just use this.

901

:

, hydroquinone or I should use this,,

that's skin Medica has like Tara

902

:

doesn't have any hydroquinone in it.

903

:

It's not my favorite, to be honest

with you, but some people love it.

904

:

, it's just using as many

products as you can.

905

:

That just treat that cause the best way

to treat pigment honestly, is at home.

906

:

And of course the number one thing ever.

907

:

Do you know what it is?

908

:

Consistency.

909

:

Yeah.

910

:

Yes.

911

:

technically yes.

912

:

And consistency.

913

:

Um, and I'll say one more

thing about all this.

914

:

Do you know the difference between.

915

:

There's two kinds of SPF.

916

:

Do you know the difference between

broad spectrum SPF and mineral?

917

:

SPF one kills turtles.

918

:

No.

919

:

I'm not asking any more questions.

920

:

I want your listeners is still big.

921

:

You are brilliant.

922

:

Because you are.

923

:

No more questions.

924

:

I don't know.

925

:

Totally kidding.

926

:

I love you.

927

:

Um, don't ask me to hear questions.

928

:

I don't know.

929

:

Um, we're both very smart.

930

:

60 volume on my hair would be great to go.

931

:

My blond.

932

:

Um, so, , this should more people

should, this should be at every CVS,

933

:

every Walgreens, every Ulta, every.

934

:

, Sephora, every place that you buy

sensory, every med spa that you

935

:

walk into, it should tell people the

difference and why they should know.

936

:

So broad spectrum sunscreens

absorbs the sun's race.

937

:

Okay.

938

:

, they're also easier to rub into your skin.

939

:

That's why they're popular.

940

:

They're also cheaper.

941

:

That's why a lot of people go to them.

942

:

But if you're in direct sunlight after

two, about two hours, the reason they

943

:

say reapply is not just to get you to go

through the product faster, to buy more.

944

:

It's because it literally turns

off it filled that molecule fills

945

:

up and spills over into your skin.

946

:

Just like if you kept pouring wine into.

947

:

Why am I using wine?

948

:

To one class and keep boring.

949

:

It's going to spill over.

950

:

That is with the sun.

951

:

The UV rays will do to your skin.

952

:

And 70 to 80% of aging is from the sun.

953

:

So.

954

:

The best sunscreen you can ever

wear is a mineral sunscreen.

955

:

And I hear this all the time.

956

:

People like I've tried five

different mineral sunscreens.

957

:

It's also called physical sunscreen.

958

:

Those two words are interchangeable.

959

:

When you, if you don't know, and

I will say it's funny, cause some

960

:

sunscreens you have to have just

whoever the sales rep is, tell you,

961

:

oh, that's mineral or physical.

962

:

It just doesn't say it on it.

963

:

But if you ever, this is how, you know,

you turn it around and it says zinc or

964

:

titanium dioxide on the back is the first

ingredient or is the active ingredient.

965

:

That is how you know it is a

mineral slash physical sunscreen.

966

:

It is the last line of defense.

967

:

So why it's great is that those

minerals reflect the sun's rays.

968

:

It's also why it sits more

on the top of your skin.

969

:

Doesn't rub in as well.

970

:

It's just finding one that works for you.

971

:

I'm not even going to list one

that I liked because one that I'll

972

:

wear is great for me in the summer.

973

:

And I don't like it in the winter

and then I'll change my mind.

974

:

They're always different ones coming out.

975

:

So that is the best thing you can do.

976

:

And if you on your face, neck and

decollete in the back of your hands,

977

:

if you could do 50, it'd be great

every day, every single day, even when

978

:

it's cloudy out, even when it's cloudy

and rainy, I wear sunscreen when it's

979

:

cloudy and raining and I'm in my house.

980

:

And when people, people think I do so

many treatments to myself and I'm like,

981

:

yo, I've been just wearing sunscreen.

982

:

So remember I used to live in LA and

I would, I would go to tanning beds.

983

:

I stopped going to And I

was like, I just couldn't.

984

:

I'm so pale.

985

:

And I just stopped.

986

:

I stopped trying to live up

to all these girls with these

987

:

dark tans and my goodness.

988

:

It's not working for me.

989

:

I tried the spray tan thing.

990

:

It looked terrible on me.

991

:

Yes.

992

:

Yeah, and I just accepted that.

993

:

I have pale skin and since about 25

to the past, past 20 years, I've just

994

:

been diligent about wearing sunscreen

all the time, but I still deal with.

995

:

You know, tanning beds and

laying out in the sun and baby

996

:

oil from when I was a kid.

997

:

Yeah.

998

:

Yeah, my daughter, she's five.

999

:

She, when I get on her dad all the time,

I'm like, please put sunscreen on her.

:

00:34:13,772 --> 00:34:14,462

She's pale like me.

:

00:34:14,522 --> 00:34:14,972

Okay.

:

00:34:15,032 --> 00:34:18,422

So, um, because our, also our, the

kids these days, like our ozone.

:

00:34:18,452 --> 00:34:18,692

Sure.

:

00:34:18,692 --> 00:34:19,831

Did they still need vitamin D?

:

00:34:19,862 --> 00:34:20,192

Sure.

:

00:34:20,431 --> 00:34:22,982

I'll sometimes leave it off her arms,

but I'm getting on her face and neck.

:

00:34:23,012 --> 00:34:23,252

Yeah.

:

00:34:23,492 --> 00:34:26,042

It's going to get more, especially

cheekbones nose forehead.

:

00:34:26,161 --> 00:34:27,661

Sometimes I'll just do

it there real quickly.

:

00:34:27,661 --> 00:34:31,172

And I always take some,

sunscreen that's powder.

:

00:34:31,202 --> 00:34:33,331

I have it in my hair right

now, like on my part.

:

00:34:33,422 --> 00:34:34,681

Oh, Because I'm so pale.

:

00:34:35,161 --> 00:34:37,411

I'm walking my dog today and

I'll do it in that center hair.

:

00:34:37,411 --> 00:34:39,812

Especially if your hair in a ponytail,

you should always have that with it too.

:

00:34:39,842 --> 00:34:41,192

Now that is always mineral.

:

00:34:41,384 --> 00:34:41,594

Yes.

:

00:34:41,594 --> 00:34:42,734

So it's a mineral sunscreen.

:

00:34:42,734 --> 00:34:45,434

Some minerals sensors are always a

little more expensive, but that's

:

00:34:45,434 --> 00:34:48,134

why, and you also, and people are

going to kill me for saying this.

:

00:34:48,134 --> 00:34:49,514

You really don't need to reapply it.

:

00:34:49,664 --> 00:34:52,994

If you didn't swim it off,

sweat it off, wipe it off.

:

00:34:53,143 --> 00:34:54,103

As long as it's still on you.

:

00:34:54,134 --> 00:34:54,764

You're fine.

:

00:34:55,004 --> 00:34:55,603

That was at the beach.

:

00:34:55,603 --> 00:34:56,054

I'd reapply.

:

00:34:56,083 --> 00:34:56,174

It.

:

00:34:56,324 --> 00:34:58,154

Yeah, but you're never going

to catch me at the beach.

:

00:34:58,214 --> 00:34:58,874

I don't like the beach.

:

00:34:58,904 --> 00:34:59,144

Yeah.

:

00:34:59,624 --> 00:35:00,014

Same.

:

00:35:00,864 --> 00:35:02,484

And that that's that's

people are doing this.

:

00:35:03,234 --> 00:35:04,764

Well, I know that people

relax by the beach.

:

00:35:04,764 --> 00:35:07,674

I know people who crave it and also

that vitamin D yes, it's great for you.

:

00:35:07,764 --> 00:35:10,644

Yeah, but like when I took my

dog for a walk today, I had

:

00:35:10,644 --> 00:35:12,294

sunscreen all over my shoulders.

:

00:35:12,294 --> 00:35:13,674

I did leave it off this part of my arms.

:

00:35:13,674 --> 00:35:15,324

Cause I know that vitamin

D is so important to you.

:

00:35:15,384 --> 00:35:15,864

Yes.

:

00:35:15,924 --> 00:35:18,174

By the way, you absorb

vitamin D more from the sun.

:

00:35:18,444 --> 00:35:19,254

On pulse points.

:

00:35:19,704 --> 00:35:23,154

So you actually ever want to go spread

Eagle to the sun in your backyard?

:

00:35:23,574 --> 00:35:24,114

Go for it.

:

00:35:25,614 --> 00:35:27,384

Like when I drive, I'll turn my arms over.

:

00:35:27,384 --> 00:35:29,784

Cause these are all pulse

points by your wrist right here.

:

00:35:30,174 --> 00:35:32,424

I'll put you in, put your arms

back post points underneath there.

:

00:35:32,484 --> 00:35:32,754

Yeah.

:

00:35:32,904 --> 00:35:33,264

All of it.

:

00:35:33,414 --> 00:35:33,774

You will swear.

:

00:35:34,734 --> 00:35:35,364

Okay.

:

00:35:35,514 --> 00:35:36,684

I'm here for useless information.

:

00:35:37,224 --> 00:35:38,004

It's not useless.

:

00:35:38,244 --> 00:35:41,214

Oh, Such a wealth of

knowledge and my gosh.

:

00:35:41,784 --> 00:35:42,714

Both points out, bitches.

:

00:35:42,714 --> 00:35:43,374

You heard it here first.

:

00:35:45,444 --> 00:35:46,164

So good.

:

00:35:46,554 --> 00:35:47,754

But, you know, Bob Marley died, right.

:

00:35:48,024 --> 00:35:51,024

Um, I forgot what kind of skin

cancer, but he was, he was either

:

00:35:51,024 --> 00:35:52,254

in his toenail or on his toe.

:

00:35:52,794 --> 00:35:54,594

Oh, I've heard that before.

:

00:35:55,164 --> 00:36:00,024

So friends, when you guys go to the

dermatologist, which everyone should get

:

00:36:00,024 --> 00:36:01,734

those mole checks I'm even bad about.

:

00:36:01,764 --> 00:36:04,074

I think I'm, I don't think I'm

like two and a half years out of

:

00:36:04,104 --> 00:36:05,664

this terrible, like estheticians.

:

00:36:06,114 --> 00:36:08,214

We would just think that we can

diagnose ourselves and we can't.

:

00:36:08,214 --> 00:36:09,684

We need somebody to look at our back.

:

00:36:09,714 --> 00:36:10,104

Yeah.

:

00:36:10,164 --> 00:36:13,074

Um, but also little things that we think

is a sunspot we're just used to it.

:

00:36:13,074 --> 00:36:16,284

So y'all should get that checked

once a year and a good dermatologist

:

00:36:16,284 --> 00:36:20,214

should spread your butt cheeks

should look between your and a

:

00:36:20,214 --> 00:36:21,804

lot of dermatologist don't spread.

:

00:36:22,494 --> 00:36:23,994

Uh, inside your lady bits.

:

00:36:24,444 --> 00:36:27,264

I don't know how, how, how medical

should I get on this podcast?

:

00:36:27,624 --> 00:36:28,044

Medical.

:

00:36:28,584 --> 00:36:31,914

It's a crass as you want, because you

could have a sunspot, like on your Lavia.

:

00:36:32,034 --> 00:36:32,754

You like, you'd never know.

:

00:36:32,934 --> 00:36:35,814

You never know, but that

is actually your OB GYN.

:

00:36:35,814 --> 00:36:37,284

His job is to look at that.

:

00:36:37,284 --> 00:36:38,244

That actually is part of their job.

:

00:36:38,274 --> 00:36:40,344

Most dermatologists won't go

there unless you ask them.

:

00:36:40,434 --> 00:36:41,004

That's fair.

:

00:36:41,334 --> 00:36:44,484

But in the same way that like a dentist

should be screening you for oral cancer.

:

00:36:44,844 --> 00:36:46,674

Your hairdresser should be

checking your scalp for.

:

00:36:46,824 --> 00:36:47,274

A hundred percent.

:

00:36:47,304 --> 00:36:47,574

Yeah.

:

00:36:47,604 --> 00:36:48,234

It's just like.

:

00:36:48,594 --> 00:36:48,894

But you.

:

00:36:49,164 --> 00:36:53,304

See that stuff on your own, but I will

say the only place that, um, The only

:

00:36:53,334 --> 00:36:56,484

place that a dermatologist usually

doesn't look as between your legs.

:

00:36:56,514 --> 00:36:56,604

Yeah.

:

00:36:56,724 --> 00:36:57,774

They should spread your budgets.

:

00:36:57,834 --> 00:36:58,074

Yeah.

:

00:36:58,134 --> 00:36:59,184

But they should look at your fingernails.

:

00:36:59,184 --> 00:37:00,804

Don't go with nail Polish on y'all.

:

00:37:01,134 --> 00:37:02,394

Um, no nail Polish.

:

00:37:02,424 --> 00:37:04,074

They need to look at your nails too.

:

00:37:04,164 --> 00:37:04,404

Okay.

:

00:37:04,464 --> 00:37:05,604

And that's part of their job.

:

00:37:05,904 --> 00:37:08,514

So, um, but yeah, they should

look in your hair a little bit,

:

00:37:08,514 --> 00:37:09,684

but you should also check that.

:

00:37:09,834 --> 00:37:11,124

I didn't even think about hairstylist.

:

00:37:11,424 --> 00:37:11,994

Oh yeah.

:

00:37:12,384 --> 00:37:14,304

Multiple times where I've seen

things on people's scalps.

:

00:37:14,454 --> 00:37:14,784

Yeah.

:

00:37:14,904 --> 00:37:17,304

I'll see something, I'll notice it

and then I'll keep an eye on it.

:

00:37:17,304 --> 00:37:20,544

And if it grows quickly or it's

getting irregular borders, I'm like,

:

00:37:20,544 --> 00:37:21,684

you need to go have this strapped out.

:

00:37:21,744 --> 00:37:21,984

Yeah.

:

00:37:22,104 --> 00:37:25,044

And, You know, most of the time

it's benign, but sometimes it's not.

:

00:37:25,074 --> 00:37:27,954

And it's like, I wouldn't have

seen that on my scalp, so, yup.

:

00:37:28,374 --> 00:37:29,814

This is just how it goes.

:

00:37:29,904 --> 00:37:30,264

Yup.

:

00:37:30,444 --> 00:37:30,744

Yeah.

:

00:37:30,864 --> 00:37:32,364

I want to say something

else about dermatologist.

:

00:37:32,424 --> 00:37:32,814

Let's go.

:

00:37:33,264 --> 00:37:35,334

I hear this a lot and I love

dermatologist and I wanted to

:

00:37:35,334 --> 00:37:37,704

go, I thought I was going to be a

dermatologist until I realized most

:

00:37:37,734 --> 00:37:38,844

of what they did is what we just said.

:

00:37:38,844 --> 00:37:42,384

They diagnose, they prescribe, they,

it drives me crazy how often they're

:

00:37:42,384 --> 00:37:44,934

just like, oh, here's some Accutane,

here's this and it just, yeah.

:

00:37:45,294 --> 00:37:46,884

There's some amazing

dermatologist out there.

:

00:37:46,884 --> 00:37:48,774

And some of the, some of the

things that patients have told

:

00:37:48,774 --> 00:37:49,974

me has made my skin crawl.

:

00:37:50,334 --> 00:37:53,274

The people that saying, like,

what about this, um, skin tag

:

00:37:53,274 --> 00:37:54,714

or what about this cheery?

:

00:37:54,714 --> 00:37:56,484

Angioma like, oh, that's

not life threatening.

:

00:37:56,574 --> 00:37:56,964

I get it.

:

00:37:56,994 --> 00:37:58,644

That their job is to save your life.

:

00:37:58,794 --> 00:38:00,084

Yeah, that's fine.

:

00:38:00,084 --> 00:38:03,004

But so many dermatologists, it's

like, oh, don't worry about that.

:

00:38:03,334 --> 00:38:04,414

Sebaceous hyperplasia.

:

00:38:04,414 --> 00:38:04,894

That's February.

:

00:38:04,924 --> 00:38:07,174

Kurtosis I go to have to worry about

that sound I've thrown in like yeah.

:

00:38:07,204 --> 00:38:07,984

Bothers me though.

:

00:38:07,984 --> 00:38:08,764

Can I move it?

:

00:38:08,764 --> 00:38:10,894

And they should actually, every

dermatologist should just have

:

00:38:10,894 --> 00:38:13,264

those machines, some do some

don't sometimes just nitrous,

:

00:38:13,264 --> 00:38:14,344

then they just freeze it off.

:

00:38:14,434 --> 00:38:17,014

Yeah, but that's, I get so many

people coming to me like, oh my

:

00:38:17,014 --> 00:38:18,244

gosh, you can take off those veins.

:

00:38:18,244 --> 00:38:19,144

You can take off this cherry.

:

00:38:19,144 --> 00:38:22,174

And Jim was, you can take off those

cholesterol deposits around the eye.

:

00:38:22,594 --> 00:38:23,644

Yes you can.

:

00:38:23,794 --> 00:38:26,224

Are the cholesterol departments around

the eye, those little white dots.

:

00:38:26,284 --> 00:38:26,374

Yes.

:

00:38:26,674 --> 00:38:27,784

I can get rid of this.

:

00:38:28,054 --> 00:38:28,924

So on my Instagram.

:

00:38:29,404 --> 00:38:32,584

If you look closely, if you zoom

in on the last Plaza fibroblasts,

:

00:38:32,584 --> 00:38:33,634

it just did it for the, I.

:

00:38:34,084 --> 00:38:34,864

I put numbers on it.

:

00:38:34,864 --> 00:38:37,864

Like 1, 2, 3, 1 says, oh, Plaza,

flybys could lift the lids, but college

:

00:38:37,864 --> 00:38:40,504

in the last and underneath, if you

notice it looks like what I did on

:

00:38:40,504 --> 00:38:41,794

your face with the cat scratches.

:

00:38:42,244 --> 00:38:44,254

So that's how you take off a skin lesion.

:

00:38:44,524 --> 00:38:48,754

So it just that poor girl, she said her

eyes, that those wounds just weeped.

:

00:38:50,014 --> 00:38:51,364

Oh, I bet she had a ton of them.

:

00:38:51,394 --> 00:38:52,144

She had lived with them.

:

00:38:52,174 --> 00:38:54,034

She said for about 20 years,

she just got used to them.

:

00:38:54,034 --> 00:38:54,994

And when I first met her.

:

00:38:55,924 --> 00:38:58,504

That's actually not the first thing she

talked about and I'm staring at those.

:

00:38:58,534 --> 00:38:58,774

That's a.

:

00:38:59,254 --> 00:39:01,504

That's really hard for my, when

people come to me and they'll

:

00:39:01,534 --> 00:39:02,944

be like, I just want to do some.

:

00:39:03,694 --> 00:39:04,444

XYZ.

:

00:39:04,554 --> 00:39:07,854

, skin rejuvenation or this, this, these

lines bothering me or this bothers me.

:

00:39:07,854 --> 00:39:11,364

And I'm staring at like 10 really

bright rays cherry angiomas.

:

00:39:11,934 --> 00:39:13,134

They don't say anything about it.

:

00:39:13,134 --> 00:39:14,124

It's hard for me to do it.

:

00:39:14,124 --> 00:39:17,604

So usually how I gently let someone know,

because some people have just been told

:

00:39:17,604 --> 00:39:18,474

there's nothing you can do about it.

:

00:39:18,474 --> 00:39:19,224

Don't even know I do it.

:

00:39:19,284 --> 00:39:19,794

Right.

:

00:39:19,824 --> 00:39:21,924

So, , that communication sometimes

with the patient, it's hard.

:

00:39:21,924 --> 00:39:23,364

Cause you don't want them

to think that, oh my gosh.

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00:39:23,394 --> 00:39:25,464

She's this person think that

this doesn't look good, right?

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00:39:25,554 --> 00:39:27,054

No, I just want them to

know that there's options.

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00:39:27,054 --> 00:39:28,464

I'll be microneedling

someone's neck and back.

:

00:39:28,464 --> 00:39:30,504

Hey, if you ever will be to take off

that little skin tag, let me know.

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00:39:30,504 --> 00:39:31,104

We'll do it next time.

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00:39:31,104 --> 00:39:31,194

Like.

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00:39:31,614 --> 00:39:32,334

You can do that.

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00:39:32,334 --> 00:39:33,264

And every time.

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00:39:33,744 --> 00:39:36,594

So, but I'm never, when I walk up to

people, people think when they find out

:

00:39:36,594 --> 00:39:39,114

what I do, they're like, oh my gosh,

are you just picking apart my face?

:

00:39:39,144 --> 00:39:41,844

I'm like, no, unless it's like

some huge skin tech, like hanging

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00:39:41,874 --> 00:39:43,494

over in your eye, off the clock.

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00:39:43,554 --> 00:39:44,394

I'm not picking apart.

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Not at all.

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00:39:47,064 --> 00:39:49,104

I'm sure you get the people when

the people hear what you do.

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They're like, oh, don't look at my hair.

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Oh man.

:

00:39:51,044 --> 00:39:53,324

I I'm from a big medical family.

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And I learned very quickly

at family reunions not to ask

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them any medical questions.

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It drives me crazy.

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Of course.

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Everyone will come up.

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00:39:59,444 --> 00:40:00,644

Oh, my elbow hurts.

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00:40:00,884 --> 00:40:02,804

This is arthritis or is this cancer?

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00:40:05,834 --> 00:40:06,554

It's definitely cancer.

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Yeah.

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00:40:07,234 --> 00:40:08,314

Back to the caviar bar.

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Yep.

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That would be amazing.

:

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Says the vegan route.

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My family.

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Yeah.

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I don't know.

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00:40:17,554 --> 00:40:18,694

I thought you were a vegetarian.

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So I, so I'm a, I'm a realistic vegan.

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Okay.

:

00:40:22,654 --> 00:40:25,324

So when I am out and about, and

so that they usually makes, I'm

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00:40:25,354 --> 00:40:29,194

not one of those vegans that that

goes to, you know, a steakhouse.

:

00:40:29,464 --> 00:40:32,104

With a bunch of friends is

like, is this mushroom cooked

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00:40:32,104 --> 00:40:33,904

on the same oven as the steak?

:

00:40:33,934 --> 00:40:35,074

I will never be that girl.

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00:40:35,524 --> 00:40:38,134

Or when it comes to the bread,

that's there, like if it has a little

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00:40:38,134 --> 00:40:39,214

butter on it, I'm going to get it.

:

00:40:39,364 --> 00:40:40,954

Yeah, I heard Jared Lido say.

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00:40:41,254 --> 00:40:44,884

He's pretty hardcore vegan, but

he's he embodied how I feel.

:

00:40:45,244 --> 00:40:47,854

Um, he embodies how I feel about it.

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00:40:47,884 --> 00:40:48,154

The most.

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00:40:48,154 --> 00:40:50,554

He goes, if I'm at someone's

house and their grandmother

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00:40:50,554 --> 00:40:53,974

makes made a cookie, I know that

there's eggs and butter and milk.

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00:40:53,974 --> 00:40:54,874

Now I'm going to eat it.

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00:40:54,904 --> 00:40:55,234

Fuck.

:

00:40:55,534 --> 00:40:57,034

Like, I wouldn't need,

if it had bacon in it.

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00:40:57,574 --> 00:40:58,684

It's like that's fair.

:

00:40:58,924 --> 00:41:01,474

But even though the dairy industry

is worse than the other industry.

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00:41:01,474 --> 00:41:02,494

Well, we're not going to go there.

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00:41:02,674 --> 00:41:04,024

We're here talking about skincare.

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00:41:04,744 --> 00:41:05,884

Can we go there real quick?

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00:41:05,944 --> 00:41:07,004

Yeah, I, , okay.

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00:41:07,004 --> 00:41:07,994

You told me that you do this.

:

00:41:08,294 --> 00:41:10,664

I keep hit the microphone,

but I meander and.

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00:41:12,224 --> 00:41:17,264

The other day, , I got a coffee

that said cow milk on it, and

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00:41:17,264 --> 00:41:18,584

it was just a regular latte.

:

00:41:18,644 --> 00:41:20,354

So it's like, it was just a latte.

:

00:41:21,254 --> 00:41:23,324

And instead of where do you think, okay.

:

00:41:23,391 --> 00:41:26,781

but like to write cow milk

and it's like, that is milk.

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00:41:26,811 --> 00:41:28,251

Like that's a regular latte.

:

00:41:28,281 --> 00:41:30,471

It doesn't need an extra word added to it.

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00:41:30,681 --> 00:41:31,851

I can understand writing OOT.

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00:41:31,881 --> 00:41:33,201

I could understand writing soy.

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00:41:33,531 --> 00:41:35,091

I could understand writing macadamia.

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00:41:35,151 --> 00:41:37,551

I could understand writing

any milk, alternative.

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00:41:37,881 --> 00:41:39,861

But Cal milk felt so Conti.

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00:41:40,251 --> 00:41:42,591

It did like, just so you

know, this came from.

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00:41:43,611 --> 00:41:44,211

Yeah.

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00:41:44,271 --> 00:41:45,861

Whose baby was stolen.

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00:41:46,341 --> 00:41:47,271

. I'm sure they I'm surprised.

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00:41:47,271 --> 00:41:47,751

I didn't write that.

:

00:41:47,751 --> 00:41:50,401

See, I'm not that kind of via , even

though all that shit's true.

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00:41:53,791 --> 00:41:54,631

I know, I know.

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00:41:54,901 --> 00:41:55,921

And I appreciate you saying that.

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00:41:56,191 --> 00:41:59,791

Um, but that it, but I wonder if it's

just, if it says, if they were writing

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00:41:59,791 --> 00:42:03,211

milk, if people were saying which

milk it could, it could be innocent.

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00:42:03,751 --> 00:42:04,501

The one that comes through.

:

00:42:05,041 --> 00:42:07,981

Every coffee drink for

the last 1 million years.

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00:42:08,401 --> 00:42:08,761

And yeah.

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00:42:09,031 --> 00:42:11,971

Because it is standard

just to say, soy or oat or.

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00:42:12,331 --> 00:42:14,941

Like, if you, cause you're PR you're

probably paying extra for those.

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00:42:15,001 --> 00:42:17,131

So it makes sense to be

like, oh, can you see.

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00:42:17,281 --> 00:42:18,091

To pay extra for that?

:

00:42:18,181 --> 00:42:18,631

Yes.

:

00:42:19,021 --> 00:42:20,701

I want extra for no suffering.

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00:42:20,851 --> 00:42:21,721

Yes, that's fine.

:

00:42:26,821 --> 00:42:28,201

This conversation.

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00:42:28,411 --> 00:42:29,341

Do you want to talk about abortion?

:

00:42:31,981 --> 00:42:32,701

Let's go.

:

00:42:35,971 --> 00:42:36,901

I had a conversation.

:

00:42:36,901 --> 00:42:37,291

Let's go.

:

00:42:37,591 --> 00:42:39,691

I had this conversation,

a funeral recently.

:

00:42:42,511 --> 00:42:43,891

I'm really fun at funerals.

:

00:42:44,851 --> 00:42:47,131

Did you sit on a piano

and saying, I should have.

:

00:42:47,341 --> 00:42:48,631

Your friend is dead.

:

00:42:50,941 --> 00:42:51,331

Uh,

:

00:42:54,031 --> 00:42:55,111

Everyone's like sweet.

:

00:42:55,261 --> 00:42:55,951

Let's read the will.

:

00:42:56,311 --> 00:42:56,821

What am I getting?

:

00:42:57,631 --> 00:43:00,121

Um, What were you saying?

:

00:43:00,241 --> 00:43:00,811

Abortion?

:

00:43:00,841 --> 00:43:01,291

Abortion.

:

00:43:01,741 --> 00:43:02,431

At funerals.

:

00:43:04,591 --> 00:43:05,941

I said to a sibling.

:

00:43:06,211 --> 00:43:09,031

No, no, my cousin, I said,

you know, you can be.

:

00:43:09,931 --> 00:43:14,701

Pro choice and anti-abortion and like

their mind, like it was going crazy.

:

00:43:14,701 --> 00:43:15,961

Cause they want you to

be one of the other.

:

00:43:16,501 --> 00:43:19,441

I was like, I hope that I've never

put in the position where to have

:

00:43:19,441 --> 00:43:20,641

an abortion, never had an abortion.

:

00:43:20,641 --> 00:43:22,741

I hope we never put in that position

to have to make that decision.

:

00:43:23,551 --> 00:43:27,451

I'm not like, Nope, Nope, no, no woman

has ever gotten an abortion has been

:

00:43:27,451 --> 00:43:31,291

late lap pro-abortion and just like,

you know, Have you ever tried this?

:

00:43:31,381 --> 00:43:32,101

This is awesome.

:

00:43:33,181 --> 00:43:35,461

Um, nobody, not one, not one woman ever.

:

00:43:35,521 --> 00:43:36,181

Of course.

:

00:43:36,271 --> 00:43:39,821

Uh, the last time I saw you, Mandy, , you

had to give me the disclaimer of like,

:

00:43:39,851 --> 00:43:41,021

is there any chance you're pregnant?

:

00:43:41,051 --> 00:43:41,321

And I.

:

00:43:41,621 --> 00:43:42,431

I said to Mandy.

:

00:43:42,761 --> 00:43:45,641

If I I'm, it won't be for a long,

so just carry on with my face.

:

00:43:46,421 --> 00:43:47,891

Oh, well, that was a few weeks ago.

:

00:43:49,541 --> 00:43:50,921

I was like, oh my God.

:

00:43:51,191 --> 00:43:52,091

She's so honest.

:

00:43:52,241 --> 00:43:53,261

This is why she has a podcast.

:

00:43:53,891 --> 00:43:54,311

That's right.

:

00:43:54,311 --> 00:43:55,271

You're perfect for this.

:

00:43:55,271 --> 00:43:56,591

I think it said that your perfect 10.

:

00:43:56,861 --> 00:43:57,101

Yes.

:

00:43:57,581 --> 00:43:58,211

I have to ask.

:

00:43:58,271 --> 00:44:02,801

I have to ask that question to everybody

and everyone says the same thing and,

:

00:44:02,891 --> 00:44:06,251

well, I should say like 95%, I'm sure

I've asked that question to somebody

:

00:44:06,251 --> 00:44:10,121

who's, you know, always wanted a baby

or tried IVF, and I know how people met.

:

00:44:10,451 --> 00:44:13,901

Sometimes I find out while we're trying

right now, I'm in the middle of IVF.

:

00:44:13,931 --> 00:44:15,431

I'm like, I can't treat you.

:

00:44:15,521 --> 00:44:16,001

Yeah.

:

00:44:16,151 --> 00:44:16,631

Wait a minute.

:

00:44:16,751 --> 00:44:17,081

Okay.

:

00:44:18,281 --> 00:44:20,921

It's technically not a contra-indication,

but I just won't do it.

:

00:44:20,921 --> 00:44:22,391

I won't stress the body out in a really.

:

00:44:22,901 --> 00:44:24,221

He released a bunch of cortisol.

:

00:44:24,461 --> 00:44:24,701

Yeah.

:

00:44:24,731 --> 00:44:26,921

If you're trying to get pregnant

and do all these other things, why

:

00:44:26,921 --> 00:44:29,201

would you stress the body out with

anything you want to just be doing?

:

00:44:29,441 --> 00:44:31,061

You should be meditating every single day.

:

00:44:31,421 --> 00:44:33,371

And going for walks and just, yes.

:

00:44:34,181 --> 00:44:35,801

Putting your body mind

to heart in a good place.

:

00:44:36,401 --> 00:44:40,151

But I have to ask every, but

most I'd say 95 to 99% of people.

:

00:44:40,181 --> 00:44:41,891

I asked them to say, are you

pregnant or breastfeeding?

:

00:44:41,891 --> 00:44:42,281

They'd laugh.

:

00:44:42,311 --> 00:44:43,421

They're like, God, I hope not.

:

00:44:43,481 --> 00:44:43,631

Yeah.

:

00:44:43,811 --> 00:44:46,211

Cause everybody, most people

I work on are over 42.

:

00:44:46,391 --> 00:44:47,081

Yeah.

:

00:44:47,171 --> 00:44:49,991

Um, But I guess I have

to ask men that too.

:

00:44:50,231 --> 00:44:50,441

Okay.

:

00:44:50,441 --> 00:44:50,591

I legally.

:

00:44:51,401 --> 00:44:51,731

Yep.

:

00:44:51,851 --> 00:44:52,091

Yeah.

:

00:44:52,121 --> 00:44:53,801

And so you just, you

never know these days.

:

00:44:53,831 --> 00:44:55,511

And so I'll have memes laugh at me.

:

00:44:55,511 --> 00:44:56,591

I'm like, I don't laugh back.

:

00:44:56,591 --> 00:44:59,321

I'm like, I don't know if you

were born a man right there.

:

00:44:59,321 --> 00:44:59,831

Like, I guess.

:

00:45:00,641 --> 00:45:01,151

That question.

:

00:45:01,421 --> 00:45:02,591

It's not even a big deal.

:

00:45:02,651 --> 00:45:03,101

And the others.

:

00:45:03,101 --> 00:45:03,641

Yes or no.

:

00:45:03,641 --> 00:45:04,301

Keep it moving.

:

00:45:04,391 --> 00:45:06,821

It took me a minute to

remember, to say that I'm sure.

:

00:45:06,881 --> 00:45:09,761

And so Ben, but you know, men Boardman.

:

00:45:09,851 --> 00:45:11,531

We're just like, it'd be

like, you gotta be kidding me.

:

00:45:11,801 --> 00:45:12,101

I.

:

00:45:12,491 --> 00:45:13,481

Are you pregnant, sir?

:

00:45:13,571 --> 00:45:13,841

Yeah.

:

00:45:14,951 --> 00:45:15,191

Yes.

:

00:45:15,641 --> 00:45:16,391

No, no.

:

00:45:16,631 --> 00:45:17,021

Pregnant.

:

00:45:17,351 --> 00:45:18,101

You breastfeeding.

:

00:45:19,661 --> 00:45:20,201

No.

:

00:45:21,761 --> 00:45:22,991

So are you trying to get pregnant?

:

00:45:23,201 --> 00:45:23,771

No.

:

00:45:24,671 --> 00:45:25,871

I'm like it says it all right here.

:

00:45:26,051 --> 00:45:26,501

Sorry.

:

00:45:27,431 --> 00:45:28,331

I can appeal you.

:

00:45:28,451 --> 00:45:29,321

I agree with you.

:

00:45:29,321 --> 00:45:29,561

It should.

:

00:45:29,561 --> 00:45:31,571

But I think, I think even

just that conversation, that

:

00:45:31,571 --> 00:45:32,681

treatment room helps people.

:

00:45:33,041 --> 00:45:34,001

Yeah, I would totally agree.

:

00:45:34,061 --> 00:45:34,211

Yeah.

:

00:45:34,841 --> 00:45:35,921

So anti-aging.

:

00:45:36,071 --> 00:45:36,851

At the AGA word.

:

00:45:36,881 --> 00:45:37,931

I hate it doesn't make any sense.

:

00:45:38,021 --> 00:45:38,591

Yeah.

:

00:45:38,981 --> 00:45:43,421

, so Mandy, I have a list of

questions that have been submitted.

:

00:45:43,481 --> 00:45:43,901

Okay.

:

00:45:44,201 --> 00:45:46,361

Do you want to do like a fire round?

:

00:45:46,451 --> 00:45:46,871

Let's do it.

:

00:45:46,931 --> 00:45:47,441

Okay.

:

00:45:47,741 --> 00:45:49,631

, 'cause you something else want to tell

you, but I bet it's going to come up.

:

00:45:49,841 --> 00:45:50,261

Oh, okay.

:

00:45:50,261 --> 00:45:50,471

Okay.

:

00:45:50,531 --> 00:45:50,741

Okay.

:

00:45:50,771 --> 00:45:51,701

That sounds good to me.

:

00:46:00,130 --> 00:46:00,430

Okay.

:

00:46:00,430 --> 00:46:01,660

Y'all so here's the deal.

:

00:46:01,930 --> 00:46:06,370

The next part of this interview

gets super deep and super awesome

:

00:46:06,370 --> 00:46:08,110

and super filled with information.

:

00:46:08,560 --> 00:46:09,460

But it's long.

:

00:46:09,520 --> 00:46:14,170

And so I made the executive decision to

break this episode up into two parts.

:

00:46:14,440 --> 00:46:16,750

So I really hope that

you enjoyed part one.

:

00:46:17,040 --> 00:46:20,580

I definitely did and got a lot

out of it and we have so much.

:

00:46:20,580 --> 00:46:24,960

More information coming from Mandy

in part two, like I said, so, uh,

:

00:46:25,230 --> 00:46:27,830

hang tight part two, we will post.

:

00:46:28,090 --> 00:46:29,110

I'm going to be honest.

:

00:46:29,860 --> 00:46:31,600

Next Monday or earlier.

:

00:46:31,780 --> 00:46:33,100

That's my commitment to you.

:

00:46:33,250 --> 00:46:34,780

We may do it earlier as a treat.

:

00:46:34,810 --> 00:46:35,890

It just kind of depends.

:

00:46:36,190 --> 00:46:38,920

So as always, we hope

you enjoyed this episode.

:

00:46:39,310 --> 00:46:40,720

Stay tuned for part two.

:

00:46:41,080 --> 00:46:42,460

Follow us on social media.

:

00:46:42,790 --> 00:46:46,360

Check out Mandy at . Hey butterfly I'll

link all of her stuff in the show notes.

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00:46:46,690 --> 00:46:48,940

And we'll see you next week.

:

00:46:49,180 --> 00:46:50,110

Thank you.

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